Saturday 6 June 2009

What to do if your wife/husband cheat on you?

Now you suspect your wife or husband cheating on you; most situation is you notice a phone number that you didn't familiar with on her or his phone.
First you have to check about who is the owner of that phone number. I have a friend who suspected his husband for nearly a whole year and even prepared to break up with him because of a strange number. Then a year later she happened to know that's a number of his old classmate and a male.
So do not rush to her or him and break up immediately, just try to first find who was that person, a male or female? Where does he/her live? How old is she/he? Seems like stupid questions? But when you know these, things would get quite different. There are several ways to find the person and we'll talk about later in reverse phone lookup review.
If you make sure your wife or husband is cheating on you, search your heart first, why does she/he cheat you? Do you still love her/him? Can you forgive her/him? If you break up with her/him, can you put the whole thing totally behind?
If you know you can't leave her/him, here are some tips to get her/him back:

Let him/her remember the old happy or sorrow times you both have been spent with.

Talk about the children because children are the ones that people always want to take responsibility of and care for them.

Tell her/him straight about the disadvantages of having an affair but in a not serious tone. Just a warning would make him/her feel it's their fault.

Learn from your friends or his/her friend to help you. Or if you don't want to ask the others for help, you can read books about how to get your ex back.

The most important is you should always keep a cool head and think in your partner's situation and build trust gradually.

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